Can You Really
Seduce A Stranger In A 6 Minutes
Wanted to drop you a quick line today to talk about what's possible.
When I first got started in The Secret Underground Internet Seduction
Community, I thought it was really difficult just to start a conversation
with a stranger. Well 6 years later things are a little different, and I
want to share this story from Vegas with everyone, not to brag, but to show
you that ANYTHING is possible. Even consistent 6 minute seductions.
As many of you may know, I made the horrible decision to stay in Vegas for 4
days in between my first two 12 Months To Mastery bootcamps.(To learn why
this was a bad idea check out my blog post on The Vegas Tipping point at
Well Tuesday night Priest and I decided to hit the best party in town. Pure
at Caesar's Palace. At Pure I did a number of approaches and nothing was
going that well. Priest and I had a 2 set going but my girl was being way
too ADD and she wasn't hot enough to get away with it :) So at around 2:30,
I decide if we're going to keep gaming, we should be gaming at our hotel.
That's lesson number 1 for those of you looking to get laid fast! Know your
logistics and keep them as favorable as possible. It's much harder to pull a
girl from a club to a different hotel. If you can just go up an elevator,
the pull becomes much easier.
So we head back to The Hard Rock. The Circle Bar was actually fairly lively
for a Tuesday at 3 AM. There were a few sets and I start to look for girls
who look bored, sexual, or like they want to trade up. Girls often settle
for guys earlier in the night and then decide they don't like them later on.
I want to find those girls. What I do to find these girls is make a rotation
of the bar. However, you don't want it to look like you're "on the prowl" so
you have to make a confused face like you're looking for a friend of yours.
This is key to retaining social value.
The next part of super fast lays, is eye contact. You want to make searing,
burning eye contact with as many girls as possible. Just make sure you still
keep a smile on your face. You're looking for one of two responses. You want
to approach girls who quickly break eye contact by looking down. This is a
sign of sexual submission. Or you want to find girls who look away and then
look back. There was a group of 3 hotties and as I was walking by, the
blonde looked at me and then looked back as I walked by. I take an extra
step, check my phone just cause I'm procrastinating and walk over.
I want to mention the next key point for super fast lays. Fashion and
stereotyping. I was wearing a black pinstriped blazer with zippers all over
it. Under that I had on a T-shirt I found in Australia with Sienna Miller
flipping the bird topless, a pair of True Religion distressed jeans and my
old school New Rocks. There's nothing spectacular about the outfit but it
stands out without being weird. As usual I was the best dressed guy in the
venue and the girls notice. If you don't get stared at or opened because of
your fashion, you're doing something wrong. There are tons of great
resources out there from style.com, to kinowear.com. There's no excuse for
bad style, or not having an overall theme/stereotype to your look. Gone are
the days when we can pretend fashion and presentation doesn't matter to
getting laid. It does matter, and it's fully within your control.
After the eye contact I walked back over and said "hi" the girl immediately
started telling me that she worked as a cocktail waitress at Treasure
Island, she never goes out, and she's only here cause her brother's
girlfriend (The Asian girl to her left) dragged her out. This is what's
known as her qualifying herself to me off the opener. I now know she's
attracted, it's 3 AM and she's with her brother's girlfriend. All signs are
go, for the 10 minute lay. Then she asks me if I'm gay.
I get the gay thing once or twice a week, it's not a horrible problem as it
allows me to escalate super fast. I say " I'm not gay and I'll prove it.
Close your eyes." and then I kiss her. She practically sucks my face off. So
I decide it's super on, and I'm gonna go for the 5 minute pull. I say " What
are you guys up to right now?" She responds that they're waiting for her
brother. I say "cool, shit I forgot my cigarettes upstairs. I'm gonna go get
them." She starts to freak out her that I'm leaving, which is exactly what I
wanted. this is a very subtle use of a take-away. Here I use it to gain
emotional momentum to get her to come upstairs with me. She says " no, don't
go! We'll get one down here." I say " Naw I only smoke Marlboro's, come
upstairs with me to grab em. We'll be back before your brother gets here."
She asks her friends if they're cool with that and away we go. Here, I just
create some excuse for plausible deniability. As you can see it wasn't even
that good of an excuse. But it worked.
Meet to elevator 3 minutes.
In the Elevator I ramp arousal. This is another key to quickies. I slam the
girl against the wall, makeout with her and feel her up. Then as soon as we
get to floor 4, I walk out of the elevator fast. This is a HUGE sexual
push/pull. She gets aroused and starts to feel good and then it's gone. We
get into the room and I throw her on the bed and pin her arms above her
head. I go for the boobs then she says " When are you gonna fuck me? Before
or after we smoke a cigarette? I laugh and we have sex. I look at the clock
as I'm inside her and it's literally 6 minutes from when I checked my phone
before going into the set.
I never would have imagined this was possible 6 years ago. But these
situations happen to me all the time now. And they can happen to you too.
The lesson to take out of this is not just controlling logistics in your
favor, using eye contact to screen approaches, or ramping arousal as you're
pulling. The real idea is that results like this are possible. A lot of
times we read things like the "7 hour rule" or a girl tells us she doesn't
sleep with guys right away and we get discouraged. The truth is seductions
like this happen all over the world EVERY night of the week. It's just up to
you to get out there and make it happen.
Til next time,
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