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How to Impress a Woman
Impressing Her With Yourself
If you really want to know how to impress women, the
answer might be surprising: impressing women starts with building
nice, normal comfort.
Once you've established a sense of social comfort with a
woman where she accepts you as a nice normal guy, you want to move
to the next stage which I call rapport-based comfrot.
Rapport-based comfort is basically exactly what it sounds like:
things like getting rapport, wide and deep rapport, stuff like
commonalities, the basic stuff out of your basic self-help, getting
to know people; this is just establishing liking. A lot of people
misunderstand rapport and they think that it's some sort like
amazing emotional connection.
Rapport is just liking. It just means that you and the other person
are on the same page psychologically, and they don’t see you as a
threat, which is kind of the whole idea of comfort is throughout a
pick up.
So the answer to "how to impress women" is really not
complicated. It all starts with being a normal, personable guy, then
building a that extra sense of rapport that makes women feel like
they are vibing with you on a level beyond just another friendly
random guy.
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