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How to Impress Women
How to Use Story Telling to Impress Her
A big factor in learning how to impress women, is the
art of story telling.
Story Telling is a way to share and exchange information in
attraction about yourself that will usually subconsciously
impress women and allow you to relate with them.
Maybe you've heard some example stories from other guys out there,
and they're 2 - 3 minutes long. That's way too long. Generally an
attraction story will be between 30 and 90 seconds. If you have
anything longer than that your story is a little too long, it
probably has a tendency to bore (rather than impress) women. That
doesn't mean it's a boring story, it just means that they don't yet
care enough about you, they're not emotionally invested enough that
they're going to sit there and listen for 2 - 3 minutes with rapt
attention.
Another thing to keep in mind when you're story telling is the idea
of Check-Ins. When women are listening for too long and sometimes,
you know, 60 seconds, 45 seconds can be too long without any input
from them, they go into receive mode; and people in receive mode are
harder to get out of that and more difficult to impress. So when you
try to get them to open up later, it's going to be more difficult because
they've been sitting there for a really long time with absolutely no
input in anything that's going on and there's a chance that if
they're not participating, they won't be impressed.
In order to impress women, your stories should have things
like: a laugh or funny punchline, something cute about your mom or a
pet or something, or a moral. All three of these qualities indicate
something positive about you that will impress women.
You don't need to outwardly tell women "I am awesome" but they can
infer that from a story, that is the best way to impress women.
So you want to learn how to impress women? Practice the
art of effective story telling.
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