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How to Attract Girls
The Truth About Body Language
I consider myself an expert
in the area of “how to attract girls" and in my experience of
teaching men the art of exactly How to Attract Girls, I
noticed there's one fallacy that comes up over and over again. Guys
tend to over emphasize the importance of non-verbal communication
when it comes to learning how to attract girls.
Nonverbal communication is one
of the more focused-on and kind of paid-attention-to subjects out
there when it comes to meeting and attracting and seducing girls.
Today, I want to clear up a couple of things about body language and
nonverbal communication that are absolute myths and have been taught
for years and years in the pick-up community. There's a statistic
that's often thrown out that says that 93 percent of communication
is nonverbal. This is an extreme fallacy. That particular statistic
came from a UCLA study in the mid '90s where, basically, people were
not allowed to communicate verbally, and so they came up with the
idea that when people are not allowed to communicate verbally only 7
percent of the communication is missing.
First of all, when we learn
How to Attract Girls, we're not doing this with duct tape over
our mouths, so this statistic is pretty irrelevant.
Now, the reason this is not
true-for my own personal life-is the fact that I have, personally,
met girls and through phone and text, where there's nothing but
verbal communication. I've convinced them to pay for their own
ticket to fly across the country and spend the weekend with me. So,
obviously, if I'm only getting 7 percent of my communication
through, that would not be possible.
A lot of guys overvalue this nonverbal communication stuff. It's
very, very important, but in and of itself, this will not get you
laid. If you don't pair this with strong verbal game and physical
escalations then this stuff will just make you seem less
nervous-which is good-but doesn't take you all the way in learning
How to Attract Girls.
To attract girls, you
certainly need to have some mastery over your body language,
but a HUGE part of learning how to attract girls comes from
you verbal skills.