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How to Attract Women
Adjusting Your Body Language
I've previously referred to the
importance of body language when it comes to learning how
to attract women. When guys are first learning how to attract
women, I recommend they do what I call "periodic tension checks.
You're going to get more
uncomfortable as you're getting into these nervous situations like
Approaching Women, and learning how to attract women, so you
want to make sure you're relaxed. The places we want to check for
tension are:
- The shoulders. If your
shoulders are not loose and are tight or tense, you do not have
good body language.
- Neck. If you're holding your
neck really stiffly, if you're trying to hold yourself too erectly
in terms of posture, you're sucking in-all of that stuff leads to
bad body language which is bad for practicing How to Attract
Women.
- Feet spread shoulder-width
apart. This is a big key to balance. A lot of the time when I'm
working with students on boot camp, or live in any form, I notice
they stand too close together, and because of that they don't have
a solid base. Make sure your feet are shoulder-width apart every
time.
- The periodic twist check.
Shake everything out. How loosey-goosey are your arms, your legs
and your core? If they're not really relaxed and really
comfortable, then your body language is suffering. You want to
always be the most comfortable person in any interaction - if you
were really a cool guy and you approached a group of girls, would
you make yourself uncomfortable, or put yourself into a strange
position in order to talk to them? You know exactly how to
attract women so of course you wouldn't. So what happens when
you're not relaxed, or you're not the most comfortable in the
interaction, is that you start to lose value no matter what you're
saying.
Do these checks and you'll be
well on your way to keying in on how to attract women.
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